February is the month of love, but who says it has to be about someone else? Whether you’re single, coupled up, or somewhere in between, this Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to turn all that love and attention toward yourself. After all, your relationship with yourself is the longest and most important one you’ll ever have. When you practice self-love—by nurturing your mind, body, and soul—you boost your mood, attract more positivity, and create space for truly happy, healthy relationships (including the one with yourself!). You don’t have to wait for anyone else to show you love—this year, why not make Valentine’s Day the ultimate celebration of YOU?

Take a cue from icons like Alex Russo, who famously treated herself to flowers just because she wanted to. That’s the energy we’re channelling this Valentine’s Day!

Galantines Day

Celebrate Galentine’s Day! Get your favourite girls together for a delicious meal, a game night, or themed cocktails. Whether you dress up for a night out or keep it cosy with movies and snacks, surrounding yourself with people who lift you up is a powerful way to boost your happiness and remind yourself how loved you are.

Plan a Solo Date

Plan a solo date and treat yourself to your favourite things—because you deserve it! Dress up, get your hair or nails done, and take yourself out for a day that’s all about you. Whether shopping, enjoying your go-to foods, sitting in a cosy café, or just going for a walk, Solo dates let you do exactly what you want, enjoy your own company, and build confidence along the way. Make it extra special by gifting yourself something you love—like chocolates, flowers, or even a little luxury splurge. You don’t have to wait for someone else to celebrate you; enjoying your own company and giving yourself thoughtful treats is a beautiful act of self-love.

Spa Day

Treat yourself to a spa day—either at home or at your favourite spa. Think bubble baths, face masks, soothing oils, and your favourite playlist. Let yourself unwind and recharge, guilt-free. Pampering yourself is a beautiful reminder that you deserve care and relaxation.

Do something you enjoy

Do what makes you happy! Whether it’s dancing to your favourite playlist, baking, painting, or rewatching your comfort show, spend time doing things that spark real joy. Giving yourself permission to enjoy your hobbies is a true act of self-love.

Do absolutely nothing

Rest if you need to! If you want a day to do absolutely nothing, that’s perfectly okay. Giving yourself time to rest—without guilt—is essential for your well-being. Listen to your body and honour what you need.

Journalling

Journaling is a fantastic way to reflect on all that makes you unique. Write down what you love about yourself, your recent wins, and the little joys in your life. Practice gratitude and self-appreciation—recognising your progress is a beautiful way to grow your self-love.

Set Boundaries and know when to reach out

Practising self-love sometimes means saying no to people, plans, or situations that drain your energy, and giving yourself permission to protect your peace. But it also means knowing when you need extra support. If Valentine’s Day brings up difficult emotions, don’t hesitate to lean on a trusted friend, family member, or therapist. Loving yourself is about honouring your needs—creating space or asking for help.

Not just a Valentine

At the end of the day, Valentine’s is just one day—but your relationship with yourself lasts a lifetime. Treat yourself with the same love, care, and attention you’d give to someone special. You are worthy of celebration, not just today, but every day.

Be Your Own Valentine: The Ultimate Valentines Day Self-Love Guide